Tuesday, July 7, 2009

A Long-Expected Party

Five years ago, eight-year-old Otilia was taken from her home in the original Darius House to the U.S. to undergo a painful surgery and another complicated process -- international adoption.

For the eight original children, growing up in the Darius House wasn't bad -- they called each other brother and sister, and the level of care was second to none in Romania, particularly for children with special needs. The kids often had sleepovers at their caregivers house or went on special outings with their other siblings. In short, they had everything they could need or want, except for their own families.

Thankfully, every last one of the original children have been adopted. This Sunday I witnessed their first reunion in five years as Otilia made the trip back to Romania and entered the Darius House again -- this time as a teenager and with her new American family in tow. The house has changed, the children have changed -- like Otilia says: "everything is bound to change."

Ionica greets Otilia by kissing her on both cheeks --
for the fifth or sixth time in as many minutes.

This is not your typical family reunion. Otilia has forgotten most of her native language, so communication between siblings is difficult, but everyone understands as her brothers Ionica and Florin embrace her repeatedly, kissing her on each cheek. Everyone understands as Teo beams uncontrollably from his wheelchair at the head of the table. And everyone understands as Otilia offers up a prayer of thanksgiving before family dinner:

"Thank you for everyone who got adopted. Thank you for our families. Thank you for everything."

Otilia and her siblings approach what used to be their home --
this time accompanied by their families.

2 comments:

  1. What a beautiful event... to bring everyone back together to share in all the blessings they have received. Thanks for sharing these pictures and words with us...

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  2. Karen and Otilia, so happy for you all!

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